She Rise
Minority woman empowerment
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as a year of 2025 Come to an end, I have reflected so much in my journey where I am and what brought me here what the struggle that they have gone through on the bottle that I have forth within: and this is the one thing that I am so excited to share with you today emotional and maturity it’s not easy journey but it is true truly possible to emotionally mature. Sometimes you can be an adult but in your emotions may not reflect your age your behaviour and your social standings. I would like to share with you a little bit journey of mine so that this may be a many others who have a struggle as I was but today I overcome and I would like to share with you what helps me through that journey
So let start story.I have gone through a regularity of emotions. It was hard for me to truly create a deep relationship, not in a spouse, but as a friendship. Because always I see true people and authenticity. I always have my own length of how people to treat me just the way I want. And that may not be the right thing, because you need to allow others as they are and allow them they’re prospective. So they really don’t know what you want, but they really do their best to what they think that you are.
And that may not be what you want, but it’s OK. So I completely grew out of it and I am completely mature when it comes to emotional. I trust myself. I respect myself. I love myself. And I don’t mind if I’m alone or with hundreds of people. But really today, I believe I can be anywhere. I can be with anyone. And I am truly being myself, not worrying about what others think of me, what others have expectation or how others sees me.
so what helps me was being myself reading books listening exploring the journey of self development and learning about how others think, behavior and their prospective.
There is no substitute reading books for developing emotional intelligence.
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The Beauty of My Own Company: Finding Peace in Solitude
We often grow up hearing that being alone is a sad thing. We’re told that if we aren’t surrounded by friends or busy with plans, we must be “lonely.” But there is a massive difference between being lonely and simply being alone. One is a heavy feeling of lack; the other is a powerful state of self-sufficiency.
The “Crowded” Loner
As one of my readers, Traci Lee, recently shared, it is possible to feel like a loner even when you are standing in the middle of a massive crowd. Sometimes, the more people there are, the more we realize how much we value our own quiet space. I’ve learned that it’s not about isolating yourself from the world—it’s about having a home within yourself that you are always excited to return to.
Letting Go to Grow
Being comfortable alone often starts with the difficult task of letting go. It isn’t easy to move on from things or people we once loved, but as Samuelchimaobim mentioned, it is often necessary. Letting go is a blessing in disguise because it clears the noise and gives us the room for new and better possibilities to arrive.
Why I Choose Solitude
When I am alone, I am not waiting for someone else to validate my thoughts or choose my direction. I am:
• Listening to my own voice without the influence of others.
• Healing at my own pace.
• Discovering hobbies and passions that belong only to me.
Being comfortable by yourself is a superpower. It means you don’t stay in places where you aren’t valued just because you’re afraid of the silence. Once you enjoy your own company, you become very selective about who you share your time with—and that is where true growth begins.
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sometimes in our lives, the people who should protect us are the ones who hurt us the most and it’s very hard sometimes you do not have the ability to do anything about, maybe you are a child or maybe you are vulnerable. Maybe you have no ability to defend another time no words to express your feelings or sometimes you don’t know how to handle it all.
in other time you may, you may not express your emotions talk about it, or due to cultural barriers due to lack of friendship, love of understanding or lack of attention even sometimes the only that help you need is a ear as someone who listen to you genuinely, and you feel helpless.
Sometimes all you need a true friend who doesn’t judge you who doesn’t talk about behind your back and who does not share with your emotions to any others who advise you with a truly and genuine advice may not be right, but they provide you their best and most of the time, what you need is silence.
Sometimes there is so much noise around you yet no one hears you, or everyone want something from but never bother to pay attention to you and a lot of time you want to be strong. But you’re braver so to speak . you think that you can handle you swallow all the emotions you swallow everything but it’s very hard to eraise from your heart from your brain. There’s a flashback sometimes come comes with it and a lot of time. It’s truly truly cloud your emotions and clothes were a lot of stuff that you could have done better not that you did not forgive, but sometimes it catch up in a moment that you have never thought about it.
And wrong to have those feelings. the best way to handle it is to talk about it even if you don’t have a ear, even if you don’t have a genuine friend, you can express in deference ways, currently you can express in writings you can express in a different platforms, that does not mean that you don’t feel hurt but, you are not alone.you should know it’s not late and you should not ashamed to speak, out and that you always have a way you always have a chance unless otherwise you don’t want, as long as you leave, you always have a chance
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I’ve learned that being a loner doesn’t mean I’m lonely.
It means I’m comfortable with myself.
I enjoy my own space, my peace, and my growth.
I don’t need a crowd to feel complete.
I choose my circle carefully.
I protect my energy.
I move with purpose.
Being alone is where I recharge, where I think clearly, where I hear my own voice.
I’m a loner, not lonely — and there’s power in that.
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been comfortable who are require courage perseverance, and patience.
you may miss understood the fake friendship most people put on when the need something from, you know what their intentions are and, you still fulfill that request, because you well understand human psychology.
let’s talk about a-loner.
A loner is not a lonely, it’s not a depressed, neither deprived nor disoriented.
It’s a quality view possessed.
it’s unique quality of a leadership, and confidence that no requires any recognition., and don’t need reminders of who they really are.
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Sometimes you wished someone may notice you.
you deem you’re so others to shine .
because you have been told you are too strong to be a woman, you are too confident, you are brave to be a lady.
so You feel like deferent, and you try to be like everyone.
But deeply you’re disappointed and you know you’re in a wrong association but you don’t know better.
Here is how you know that you’re in the wrong place when people put you down rather than empowering you, when feel there is a eyes that are always watching, and changing you, when you feel you are fighting with invisible enemies that you cannot defeat.
congratulations, the fact that you’re, you feel deferent clarifies, your, strong, independent, important, ambitious and an attainable person.
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many people confuse between a loner and lonely person.
they think, if some one don’t have want many friends or so much noise, that they are lonely.
I believe if someone chooses to be themselves, is a sign of self respect and self love, self confidence.
knowing your worth and choosing wisely who spends time is more important than what Society, want it for you.
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